The Impetus for Spectator Sport Dating

I've known J. for about two months now--we're coworkers. We're both young, attractive, intelligent females. She is in a relationship; I am not. She has been in her relationship for something like six years; I probably haven't had a relationship in that long. Often I come in to the office and recount tales of my adventurous weekends... or weeknights... or lunchtimes...

After my latest tale, J. said, "I actually think I need to follow you around for a night to observe this phenomenon. I feel like it could be a good spectator sport."

And so after years of holding out, despite my career in journalism, my blog has arrived.